at the table. I need to get a picture of Mascheba.
“Malome” is Setswana means “uncle” and that is what I am called at my homestay. I was jealous of my friends that got names like “Dineo” meaning “gift” because I just thought they were giving me an easy, practical name. Then I thought about how important it is for Roro and Mascheba to have a Malome. I have never met their father nor have I heard any word of him. I met my first male relative this past weekend. There is no interaction with males in the neighborhood besides peer interaction. So how does a child in this situation growing up learn how a male acts? I’m not sure. In a country plagued with unemployment, alcoholism, children out of wedlock, and many other complex situations, I am proud to be called Malome.
Note: I am also very proud to be a Malome in the USA. My sister would kill me if I did not add this note. Hi Aiden!
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